Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Memories of Grandma Free by Lenore M Ruesch


History of

ANNIE HICKS FREE

HANDCART PIONEER IN EDWARD MARTIN COMPANY IN UTAH NOV 30, 1856

written by Lenore M. Ruesch

Story Key:
Grandma Free-Annie Hicks Free
Grandma Rock-Louesa Eve Free Rock
Mother-Gertrude Rock McFarlane

 

Things I remember about Grandma Free

 

Grandma Free lived right through the lot from Grandma Rock on 21st South Street in Salt Lake City, and we always went to see her when we went to Grandma Rock's. Just before it was time for us to go home from our weekly visit to our grandmother's house, my mother would get all of us children together, see that our hands and face were clean and our hair neatly combed; and then we would walk Single file on the narrow path through the field to see Grandma Free.

 
I remember Grandma Free well. She always smilingly greeted us. She was a stately lady, tall and straight, old, yet young in spirit. She was dressed usually in grey or a small print, her dresses long, with high necks and long sleeves. Always she wore, it seems, a

Crisply starched white apron---which made her look "clean as a pin".  I remember that the fine leather black kid shoes she wore were always well polished. They were shoes not slippers, tightly laced over thin ankles.

 

Grandma Free had a gentle old face with finely chiseled cheek bones that sort of showed through. Her hands fascinated me with their raised blue veins. I remember her saying, "Well, Gertie, my girl, how are you?   My Mother was her oldest living granddaughter, and there was a close, warm feeling between them.

 

All of us children, my sister and three brothers and I, liked Grandma Free, too, and we were delighted when she would pump her little old organ and play and sing the Handcart Pioneer song. In my memory, I can still hear the words: "For some must push and some must pull, as we go marching up the hill, for merrily on the way we go until we reach the valley—O!  We enjoyed playing the organ ourselves, too. That was lots of fun!

 

Grandma Free was a special person in our lives, and we were very proud of her. She had left all of her people in England when she was only 19 years old, walked across the plains pushing a handcart and arrived in Salt Lake City without a single soul to meet her ---all because she had heard the Gospel and believed it. Then she had married in polygamy a man old enough -to be her grandfather. He was 60 years old, she 20. Never did she call him anything but "Mr.

Free.

 

He was a Patriarch in the Church, had come to Utah in Brigham Young’s second company in 1848, and had many children older than Grandma Free, among them Emeline Free Young, long a favorite wife of Brigham Young, and Louisa Fee Wells, wife of Daniel H. Wells.

 

Grandma Free's life was not without romance. A young man who had asked her to marry him before she left England came all the way to Utah to claim her as his wife, but she was already married to Grandpa Free and steadfastly refused to divorce him. It was against her religion to even consider divorce. Her lover, as she called him, went back to England but always remained a cherished memory.

 

Grandma Free was a hard-working pioneer woman, yet there was a quality of refinement and dignity about her that set her apart.  Her mother had been a member of the English nobility, but had been disinherited by her family because she married a sea-captain. Her

mother's brother, the Earl of Wenlock died without heirs, though, and Grandma Free was advised (long after she came to Utah) that the family title and property were hers and all she would need to do would be to go to England to claim the title and fortune. She never went, but often said, "When, oh when will I ever be the great lady I'm supposed to be?”

 

The feminine title equivalent to Earl is "Lady". It is the same rank as the European "Countess". And Earl ranks next below a Marquis and above a Viscount. He is the governor of a county or shire. Had my great-grandmother accepted the title and responsibility and money that went with it, she would have indeed been a great lady in the eyes of the world---Lady Ann of Wenlock. Instead she stayed in Utah, raised seven children and was true to her Church.  It was quite a choice to make! Truly she was a great lady even though she didn’t hold the title!

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